Termination of employment is not the end of everything. Enjoy and open new opportunities.
Sadness, fear, anger, frustration, resentment, inferior, and others may continue to appear while you are still losing jobless. Do not be surprised or caught up in that condition.
You should be able to anticipate these feelings so you do not to despair then it will be chaotic.
Grieving does not mean you’re sunk. But if you do not skip that process, you’re just keep it to reappear in the future. But, you also have to realize, if I just let the sadness piled on your shoulders every day, he will be a very heavy burden the next few months. So, put your load, and go to a place quiet enough to make you calm. Let natural recharge ‘batteries’ you before you click on search sites job.
Face your family
Describes the situation that has happened to the family, perhaps other parts very difficult to do. But, you have to do it. “Because after all, his wife and children will feel the impact when the jobless man,” said John Papua, a psychologist from the e-psikologi.com.
According to John, the key is openness. After all, you would want the support of the family, is not it? How can they support you kalu they do not know what you’re going through? The second thing you should do is to immediately pay off credit card bills and your debts other. Then, immediately set back to the pattern of family life, so your savings can be adapted to the needs of everyday life.
Be The Next BOC
Yes, why not! You must be able to look like modern men on the front cover of the magazine. How? practice until you are just like them. All this, while working, your body is too busy and too tired to practice. Take advantage of the days not worked is to improve health. Start things simple, as I have ever done. I walk around the house every day for 1 hour. And I think, what I’m doing it really useful. Remember the slogan ‘in a healthy body there is a strong spirit’. also you can get. “In addition to filling the current time suddenly seemed very much, exercise can help you get healthy and fit body, also formed a healthy mind,” said John.
Try to say ‘Yes’
Consider the environment and the community around where you live. Did you find interesting things for you ignore it or escape from your attention? For example near my house stands a theater building. Before, I always rejected any role offered. “No, thank you,” the usual mantra that I say. But this time, I thought I did not have enough reason to reject it. In fact, I can give my time freely to them.
And, during the idle period, I often say ‘yes’ to a lot of simple things. Drinking tea together with colleagues while playing chess or doing casual conversation in the park late afternoon, evening aerobics classes with young women beautiful, and others.
“Socializing, namely participating play simple roles in the community or hanging out with close friends, will help you live your life after the layoffs. With the presence of friends, you will not feel lonely, and you can also a big opportunity for get info jobs through friends, “said Johanes.
Yes …. NOT …
World of work has many similarities with romance. Consider, if you refuse an offer, you may often look more attractive. Compare if you are depressed and continue to hope someone comes to your application. This will make people who are interested to you to go away.
But be careful. The situation is not as simple as that. If you do have KSA = knowledge, skills, and a very special ability, or not many other people have, you could be. You see, bid or a new job, you will probably get a lot.
But if your KSA mediocre, or areas that you control a lot of control, then you must be careful in rejecting the job offer.
“I think the most important thing to note is, not until you look hopeless. So easily agreed with job offers. Even if you’re jobless, you should still consider what kind of job would you take, how the financial condition and reputation of companies offering jobs , and how the future of the company according to your choice, “said Johanes.
Find Opportunities
There are two options you can do.
* First, keep walking in the path of your profession. For this, you must continue to expand the network, update your resume, and actively looking.
* Second, switching professions or open new ones. All you need to do is mendalaminya, find out in detail the opportunities that you want to pursue it. Fixed networks multiply, ask for the support of family, and convince yourself, the decision was not born out of frustration or desperation, or due to not accept work elsewhere. The point of all that, said johanes, keep looking and never give up!