In fact, termination may be blessing in disguise. In the short term may be oppressive, but for the long term can be quite a relief.
Impact:
1. ANGRY TO resignation
Termination of employment for the most terrible scourge among workers, especially in this difficult economic conditions like now, where to get a new job very difficult. Termination of employment not only means that someone lost their jobs and income sources, but not rare condition that makes people also lose self-esteem and honor. So do not be surprised if layoffs are often faced with fear, disappointment, sadness, despair, frustration, and some even to suicide.
According to one psychologist who lose their jobs every person generally will experience a cycle called DABDA – Denial, Anger, bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance.
2. Denial usually arises when the information coming to him responded with: “This is not true. The Company was still require energy and my mind.”
3. NEXT BECAUSE SUCH ATTITUDES not being expelled kegalauannya, anger arises. “Fool! Why am I to sacrifice? They can not go without me!”
4. TURN OUT, ITS FIXED with the establishment. When the decree was finally dropped as well, he’ll try to do bargaining: “Well, I really understand the current condition of the company. But can I maintain? Jka you do not mind paying me for this, you may cut bonuses to me.”
5. NOT TOO SUCCESSFUL? Mean time to go into full stage of depression. At this stage he could only feel pain, like physical, emotional, mental or due to anxiety about the future of whack.
6. AT THIS STAGE, every individual should receive the (acceptance) reality.
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO:
1. Saving For Savings
You should feel grateful if your entire career had never felt lost sources of livelihood. But who can guarantee the condition will continue demikan?
Let’s suppose that the worst thing to happen to you. Yes, you lose revenue sources. Whether you are fired, or have an office policy that you do not like so you choose left. You Ready? I mean, how long you can survive financially in a condition without a single source of your income? If you have a double-income, meaning your wife work and have no fixed income, financial problems may not be too severe. But if the contrary of course the situation will be different.
Retirement savings have been common and is usually taken into account, but what about the savings or spells of unemployment insurance? Is not it also be considered? Remember that a person could spend months, even years without work and income.
“Actually, if you’ve worked around five years, you should have no savings to continue with the same quality of life at least for the next year. So if anything happens, you can still continue to live with the same level as when you are still work. That’s why you need the savings, insurance, financial planners, investment, and the like. If not, you will be stressed. The financial experts say the score is equal to the last six months of your salary.
When you realize that the work is nothing eternal, surely you have to start thinking about not relying on just one source of revenue. You’d better have another income status not only as a backup, but under normal conditions the results can you save as preparation for an emergency such as unemployment.
Continue to develop competence in the field that you promise to sell. Utilizing the weekend to improve the quality of self or run a side business is a wise thing. Does not matter if it was something new, or a hobby that can thicken the wallet, and even add a sequence of numbers on your savings.
2. But it was not without options. If you simply have to develop the spiritual intelligence to think positive thoughts for the future, you’ll never get depressed. With that capital, you are emotionally will quickly pass through this cycle and regain life balance. No need to be individuals who belama-old trapped in one phase of the cycle.
They were usually the people who still refuse to develop a view of reality: “One day the company will realize how their decision to fire me was wrong. And they also know how difficult it would be looking for employees like me”, or still angry: “Look You’ll see. They’ll be sorry if you knew who I was. ” Condition is very detrimental to himself, because it means she is trapped in a prolonged depression.
“You want sad? Guest. But like how long? Day? Two days? Week? Set only. Just do not drag on. After a sad period is over, immediately re-awaken your spirit to reach for a better opportunity. Think positive that you will have a better chance after being fired.
3. WHAT NEXT?
Wise people say, experience is the teacher who most baik.Buat you who believe, the dismissal could be a blessing in disguise, that is a blessing given by God to us in the form of disaster. That in the short term tersekan oppressive, but, in the long run you will realize that it have a positive effect on you.
Look at all the possibilities in front, and then determine what steps are most appropriate for you to do in the near future. Are direct search for a new job, think about opening their own businesses with the capital amount of severance pay which is sometimes quite adequate, or decide to enjoy the first period of unemployment as a major holiday.
Maybe you too work that I forget that life also needs a space. Realize if you often act like a robot. Morning departure, evening return, so it goes without understanding what you are actually looking for. Thus, use of time ‘resting’ was to rearrange the priorities of life. What exactly do you most want in life.
Take advantage of your moments of solitude to reflect and evaluate themselves by thinking about positive things and negative that you have been doing work in the company’s last. Then create a revolution to change the negative things that exist in yourself. While a positive thing to be preserved even if we have to be improved.
After that, start looking for jobs according to your interests and abilities. Contact your friends, and let your true condition. Open a magazine, newspaper, and visit Internet sites that promise specific information about job vacancies. Send the application as much as possible to companies who might need your strength. But never despair if the proposal had not yet received a response.
Realize that the status of unemployment can be a rather weak position in bargaining over salary than you were still working. So do not vote if the first opportunity it presents. For example there is a bid, but his salary is not as high as yesterday, or lower position. Why not? Is not that the most sensible option than to keep you unemployed?
If you eventually find a new job matching with your desire, strive to always provide the best value in your work performance. Create conditions, if a company wants to terminate the employment of its employees, at least your name is not in order of the peak, either because you belong to employees who do not contribute significantly to the company, or the person who most hated boss. But so do not be fooled by a feeling of comfort. all probably going to happen.
Learn to naturally (without a sense of trauma or paranoid) from the past. Do not be remiss to prepare anticipation. If the trip turns out you’re not too comfortable working in the office now, probably because not too promising career ladder, it’s time to think about the next step. No more waiting for company to terminate your employment.
